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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 29.06.2025 01:21

How does one succeed in life?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Why do you think most harem anime and manga have lame male protagonists that would be considered losers and pathetic by most people?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

That's it for today.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why do some of those who believe in a god refuse to consider the possibility they could be wrong?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Do not set goals—set systems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Ask yourself:

Why are your TikTok videos getting low views?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Does not procrastinate.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What I need from you?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Do you think Lady Gaga and Celine Dion have rehearsed separately for their performance at the Olympics opening ceremony?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Is a man over 50 not married no kids a red flag?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).